The Five Stages of Child Birthday Party Prep

Princesses, pirates, superheros and fairies. Hepped up on sugar and excitement and bouncing around like a mob of hyperactive kangaroos. No, it’s not a Liberal fundraiser;  it’s the standard child birthday party; every parent’s dream and nightmare all at once. You want so desperately to create magical memories for your little cherub, while at the same time feeling a tad sick to your stomach wondering how to pull off a party for a group of little monkeys without resorting to drinking wine out of a brown paper bag. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. I endorse wine coming out of anything, truly.

With every party comes a series of stages that we go through, as we plan and prep to within an inch of our lives, the much anticipated celebration of our darling’s birth. Just like the Elizabeth Kubler-Ross’ five stages of loss and grief, so too do we have five stages of children’s birthday party prepping. IT IS REAL, YO.

It is an emotional journey, not often occurring in a straightforward manner. We can lurch from one emotion, backwards to another, get stuck on one and then shoot through to other emotions. While there may be a range of emotions involved, typically the following emotions can be exhibited at any given time.

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How to work with your child’s teacher

I know. This sounds like a lesson in ‘how to suck eggs 101’, right? Well, seems simple enough but for some reason when we get in to our Mama bear/Dada bear mode all logic can go out the window. Fair enough too.

Our kids spend a ton of time in school. They’re going to have a ton of teachers guiding them along the way. For the most part, they’ll have fantastic educators, be guided, and build great connections. Sometimes it goes a bit pear shaped though, and we have to step in and do a bit of work with our child’s teacher. It’s life. Not everything is perfect. But there’s ways and means of going about it, you know?

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